If you are new: read the pinned threads once. Register with two honest lines. Mail is for beds. Talk is for things that already have a name on a chest or a cleat.
The rule did not change because someone was tired of explaining it. It changed once, in March, and we are not resetting that world because a new bed finds the ditch inconvenient.
If this helped, you do not need to thank me. Put the thing back where the next person expects it.
Havenhold